I'm not in a position to give you specific instructions on how to setup your own home wireless network. But assuming your network is properly setup then it is a simple matter of running the iPhone Settings app and selecting Wi-Fi. On the Wi-Fi Networks screen make sure Wi-Fi is set to ON. Then selected your home network under "Choose a Network...". Setup whatever password or passphrase is appropriate for your network.
At this point I will assume that your iPhone is connected to the same home network as your computer. Once you have gotten that far (and again, I can't help you get to that point), then you can run iLogger, go to Tools, Data Transfer, and then pick which ever transfer you wish to do (backup, restore, export, import). You will be prompted to enter a specific URL into your computer's browser.
More detailed instructions can be found on the iLogger website at:http://www.maddysoft.com/iphone/ilogger ... ctions.php